My journey of discovery in resilience, grace, and the transformative nature in navigating life’s complexities, disillusionment, betrayal, and lies. First of all, let me be clear. I have not arrived. I’ve learned through much pain, sorrow, and disillusionment that this is the journey of my life. I distinctly remember laying in a hospital bed at Read More
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Turn on the Light!
Several years ago, I wrote the post that is below. It’s worth repeating because this metaphoric story addresses another type of darkness that is rarely acknowledged. Pretending we aren’t seeing what we know we are seeing. Every Monday afternoon for an hour, I meet ladies online to read through books that are focused on various Read More
The Power of Listening with Your Eyes
“Listening with your eyes” refers to the concept of paying close attention to non-verbal cues such as body language, facial expressions, and gestures while someone is speaking. It involves hearing the words as they are spoken and observing the speaker’s visual cues better to understand their emotions, intentions, and overall message. This practice is critical Read More
Understanding the Complimentary Power of Logic and Creativity
As a creative individual, I have often been frustrated by logical people who demanded to know the logic behind my creativity. How do you explain something you feel and see from the inside out? At the same time, I know that my creative mind has stumped and confused those who live by logical thinking. Communication Read More
Surviving a Sifting Storm
Embracing the Storms of Life: Finding Clarity Amidst Chaos Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and amidst it all, storms that sweep through our existence. These storms, inevitable as they are, have a purpose beyond mere disruption. They serve as a “sifting storm,” clearing out the debris and clutter Read More
What Does it Mean to Love God, Love Others as We Love Ourselves?
Understanding how we love God, ourselves, and others reveals a strong link between these relationships that greatly influences how we treat others and what we believe… beginning with ourselves. This connection shows that our love for God, ourselves, and others is closely connected and affects how we see the world, how we behave towards ourselves, Read More
I Just Need a Hug …
Periodically, I’ll receive an email from a pastor’s wife that echoes not only my own experiences but those of others who’ve crossed my path during my years in ministry. This letter is not uncommon for a wife to write, but there are added layers to the pain when it is voiced from a pastor’s wife. Read More
What if … Things got better, just by how you perceive them?
Truth refers to what is by fact or reality, while perception is how something is understood or interpreted. Truth is objective and based on facts, while perception is subjective and influenced by personal experiences, biases, and interpretations. To tell the difference between truth and personal interpretations, consider the meanings and stories that get attached to Read More
Differences Between a Student and a Con-Artist
Know the difference between a teachable growth-mindset person versus someone who is seeking validation without investment. Being flattered and praised for your intelligence, charisma, or wisdom can be quite enjoyable – until it is revealed as manipulation. Whether you have studied for years, or the years have studied you, there are opportunities to share what Read More
Beliefs; The Power of Personal Responsibility in a Flawed World
Navigating the complexities of human interactions requires embracing personal responsibility in a flawed world. Explore the power of choice, self-awareness, and accountability as we delve into the importance of discernment and action in safeguarding our values and boundaries. BEWARE OF A PERCEPTION OF SAFETY AND TRUTH FOUND IN UNPROVEN SURROUNDINGS In the sanctuary of a Read More
They will Know You by Your Love … or Lack of It
I’m not as young as I used to be. In all my years, I have never witnessed such animosity towards the ‘church’, often confused with the Body of Christ, also known as ‘Christians’. My journey as a Senior Pastor’s wife began by stepping into the role alongside my Senior Pastor husband of a congregation that Read More
How to Respond to Offense
Have you ever begun a conversation with somebody that didn’t exactly go the way you had imagined it? Maybe you were trying to express a complex thought, but the other person misunderstood what you were saying. Or perhaps you were trying to make a point, but the other person got defensive and started arguing. If Read More
What Ignited the Sarah’s Tent Journey?
Just as the Internet was beginning to bud in 1996, our church family shattered in unbelievable chaos. Entering the AOL Chat rooms I sought out pastors who could explain to me the devastation in our church as well as the confusing behaviors of our beloved members. Every pastor I contacted, logged off from the conversation Read More