After Pastor Aritcles – Because You Need to Know

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Articles on the term “After Pastor” and addressing the moral failure of religious leaders are listed in this blog post for your convenience.

These unfortunate events bring complex issues and challenges that extend far beyond their immediate, visible impact.

Nothing prepared us for the shock of our former pastor’s moral failure—not once, but twice. In many religious settings, there’s a deep-seated tendency to trust unconditionally, driven by a desperate need to believe in the ideal of perfection.

Yet, no matter how hard leaders strive to embody this “perfect” image, they face temptations that most congregational members rarely encounter. People elevate leaders as “holy,” hanging on their every word as if it were directly from God, often without discerning its truth for themselves. Many don’t study the Word of God independently, preferring the comfort of a delusional world filled with fantasies of perceived holiness. This narcissistic system sets both leaders and congregants up for inevitable failure.

The exposure of our pastor’s moral failure unleashed chaos and devastation, forever altering our lives. The bizarre behaviors and events that followed were bewildering and mind-boggling. Recovering from such profound spiritual betrayal is impossible without external support and a deep, introspective examination of one’s own heart and imperfections. If you or someone you know are experiencing this or a similar challenge, I’m posting the various articles I’ve discovered online from a variety of sources for your convenience. 

Disclaimer

The provided articles are shared to facilitate exploration of this complex topic. I do not necessarily endorse or oppose the views expressed within them.

After Pastor” Congregations Long-lasting Consequences of Inappropriate Behavior  |  By Lisa Presley  |  October 7, 2020

“After Pastor” is a term used in congregations when the pastor (minister) or other leaders have violated the boundaries that are expected in their behavior. Often it’s applied to situations where the violation has been sexual in nature—where the minister/lay leaders have behaved sexually toward members/friends, and situations often involving abuse of power.  |  CONTINUE READING …

The pastor after a moral crisis: Is restoration to ministry possible after a pastor’s moral lapse?

Charlie, a credentialed minister of the Seventh-day Adventist Church, lost his right to function as a pastor because of a moral lapse. He is still a Seventh-day Adventist and demonstrates no animosity toward the church or those who found it necessary to remove his credentials. He freely acknowledges that the church administration had a responsibility to do what it did.  |  CONTINUE READING …

Responding Biblically to the Moral Failure of Pastoral Leadership

What happens when a Christian leader you love, trust, and respect breaks your trust and does something so heinous and morally repugnant that it shakes the very foundation of your faith?   |  CONTINUE READING …

Don’t Make the Church Leadership Crisis Worse
Mike Cosper

In many ways, it’s an old story. From King David to Ted Haggard, we see leaders rise to power and discover both a sinful sense of entitlement and the opportunity to indulge it. Surrounding them are enablers, fixers, and others willing to just look the other way. |  CONTINUE READING …

How to Handle a Church Staff Person’s Moral Failure
by Sam Rainer  |  President & Senior Consultant

Few models exist on how to handle the moral failure of a staff person. Indeed, there is little consensus among pastors about what to do, even with something as explicit as adultery. Researchers asked pastors, “If a pastor commits adultery, how long, if at all, should the pastor withdraw from public ministry?” As you will see, the answers vary greatly. |  CONTINUE READING …

Beating the Pedestal Syndrome: Help for Pastors Drowning in the Ministry
by Dale O. Wolery and Dale S. Ryan

It doesn’t seem that complicated. He is drowning, arms flailing. Throw him a rope. If he grabs the rope, pull him out. Simple. Rescue complete. But in real life it seldom works that simply. There are complications. Lots of them. |  CONTINUE READING …

5 Insights to Leading Your Pastor Search After a Moral Failure

It is next to impossible to be prepared for the hurt and shock you feel when a church leader disappoints you. You feel confused and betrayed. And if you’re on the pastor search committee, you’re tasked with the daunting mission of finding a new pastor and leading your church through the pastor search process while you may still be healing on your own. |  CONTINUE READING …

Preventing & recovering from pastoral failure
Point Magazine  •  LEADERSHIP | January 2021 | Ben Greene

Since becoming Converge Great Lakes’ district executive minister five years ago, Ken Nabi has worked with five or six pastors who experienced moral failure.

Now he is gravely serious about new challenges for pastors that began in 2020 and continue in 2021 because of COVID-19: “There’s going to be a whole onslaught of failure if we don’t do something proactive.”  CONTINUE READING …

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