After Pastor Aritcles – Because You Need to Know

Articles on the term “After Pastor” and addressing the moral failure of religious leaders are listed in this blog post for your convenience. These unfortunate events bring complex issues and challenges that extend far beyond their immediate, visible impact. Nothing prepared us for the shock of our former pastor’s moral failure—not once, but twice. In Read More

Discerning vs. Judging: Example Stories to Illustrate the Difference

The distinction between discernment and judgment shapes our interactions and well-being across life’s many domains, from personal relationships to public discourse. By exploring real-life stories, we can see how choosing discernment over judgment fosters healthier outcomes and wiser choices. The concept of discernment—evaluating situations or behaviors with clarity and compassion without condemnation—contrasts with judgment, which Read More

Discerning vs. Judging: Understanding the Difference

In our daily interactions, we often need to evaluate situations, people, or actions. However, the way we approach these evaluations can have a profound impact on our relationships and perspectives. Two terms often used interchangeably—discerning and judging—carry distinct meanings that shape how we process and respond to the world around us. As I recently shared Read More

Addressing Sexual Abuse in Church Leadership

When a church leader discovers that another leader is sexually abusing members and no one is taking action, the weight of responsibility can feel overwhelming. As a community entrusted with spiritual care, churches must prioritize justice, safety, and healing. Here’s a clear, actionable guide for leaders facing this crisis, grounded in ethical and biblical principles. Read More

Influencing Others in Critical Thinking as an Influencer-Leader

As a Christian leader or pastor’s wife, you hold a unique position to influence others by modeling critical thinking rooted in biblical truth. In a world saturated with misinformation, agendas, and distractions, you can guide others to discern truth, reject fear, and embrace the simplicity of Christ. By living authentically with love, peace, and grace, Read More

Spiritual Abuse vs. Toxic Beliefs and What to do About Them

Spiritual Abuse vs. Toxic Beliefs: Understanding, Identifying, and Addressing Them Spirituality can be a source of comfort, guidance, and community, but it can also be misused in ways that harm individuals and groups. Two distinct yet interrelated issues in this realm are spiritual abuse and toxic beliefs quoted as scripture. While they often overlap, understanding their Read More

Reflections on Discernment and Judgment

Consider the dangers of judgmental finger-pointing in the church, urging believers to discern truth by studying God’s Word and recognizing patterns of deception rather than condemning individuals. Return to love, humility, and the simplicity of Christ in navigating spiritual battles. Years ago, I stumbled across a website where a man listed every Christian teacher I’d Read More

What to Do When an Attendee Derails the Discussion

Meetings with your leadership are a cornerstone of collaboration, designed to align teams, solve problems, and drive progress. But what happens when an individual hijacks the discussion? You’ve likely encountered this scenario: the group is focused on a specific topic, someone responds initially as if they’re on track, and then—bam—they pivot to their own personal Read More